With the other problems you've been having with your daughter have you all had any support?Has she been refered to see someone to find out why she's being violent and abusive? Oh Hazel I really feel for you hunni:sadhug.I know it's really raw right now and everyone's obvously really angry but throwing her out is not going to help the situation at all.She's only 14 so still very much a child and that shows in her actions to have sex in your house whilst your down stairs shows someone that's very emotionally young.įirst things first I think you and your daughter need to sit down and have a proper talk together,preferably with no one else in the house.You need to find out if they used contraception if you don't allready know.Make sure also that it was consentual.Ask your daughter about how she feels about the boyfriend and how he feels about her.Tell her that you want her to be able to talk to you about anything,that your there for her and that just because she's older now that you still care about her and worry about her. Please do not throw her out though, this will only ignite any insecurities she does have or any feelings of being unloved. I think a talk is needed more than a confrontation, understanding why she is behaving this way will help you both a lot in my opinion. I would sit her down & explain why you were concerned she was having sex, all of the risks of the stds, pregnancy, asking her why does she feel she needs to have sex at this age, maybe she is under peer pressure, perhaps she feels bad about herself so she is having sex to make herself feel loved and wanted, believe me this happens, sometimes young girls think that that is love, it's hard to understand at this age. If it were me I wouldn't be flying off the handle, I just think that gets their back up ( I talk from my own experience of myself). I don't know if other stuff has gone on, im going on based on this post. Personally I feel wanting her gone from the house based on her having sex in her sisters bed is a little harsh.
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